A Simple Common Morality Across All Religions


My parents celebrated my tenth birthday in an unusual way. My mother told me that it will be a very special celebration. I expected some wonderful present and I did get a very special present, but not the kind I was expecting.

My mother cooked a lot of good food and took me with her to feed the poor people outside the temples of six different faiths: a Sikh temple, a Hindu temple, a Jain temple, a Christian church, a Jewish synagogue, and an Islamic Mosque.

As I handed over two pieces of bread and some very appetizing curry to each person, I did not see Muslim or Hindu or Christian faces — I only saw grateful human faces. Even though it was a fleeting exchange — a small act of kindness and the acknowledgment of gratitude — I can still vividly remember the deep human connection I felt that day, and the profound sense of joy it gave me. This truly was the best birthday celebration for me. My mother gave me a very effective lesson in kindness and caring.

Kindness is a moral obligation across religions, but more importantly it is something that connects us with others and allows us to love and learn from one another more deeply.

Additional Quotes

The Dalai Lama
Spiritual Leader of Tibetan People

“This is my simple religion. There is no need for temples; no need for complicated philosophy. Our own brain, our own heart is our temple; the philosophy is kindness.”

Baha'i leader

 “It is your duty to be exceedingly kind to every human being, and to wish him well.”

Sefer Ha-Aggadah
Collection of Jewish writings

"The world endures because of three activities: study of Torah, divine worship, and deeds of loving-kindness."

The Bhagavad Gita
Hindu scripture

“Dignity, kindness, courage, a benevolent, loving heart—these are the qualities of men born with divine traits, Arjuna.”

The New Testament
Christian scripture

“And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other.”

The Analects
Confucian Text

“Confucius said, 'To be able to practice five things everywhere under heaven constitutes perfect virtue.' […] 'Gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness, and kindness.”

Elizabeth Dunn
social scientist
Science, Psychology, & Philosophy

"Let's stop thinking about giving as just this moral obligation and start thinking of it as a source of pleasure."